So now you are saying it's not even hard.
Clearly you guys are measuring everything to yourself, even the two of you can't agree if it's hard or not.
Maybe, since "hard" is subjective, it could be made so it works for more people. and no, not doing it because it's too hard is not what I call "working".
1. Keep at least 5-6 Blacksmiths in your city - 8 is ideal though.
Boom! Production quests are now stupid easy... make them trivial by keeping an 8hr production cooked & ready for pick-up - once it's motivated, it can't be plundered, so no harm leaving it sit idle for however long.
2.
Always activate your DC's as soon as log in, BEFORE collecting *anything*!!
It's amazing how many people don't do this, and then whine about how they just "wasted" so many collections. -_-
3. Never polivate beyond the top 20 in your 'hood...
Neighbours are your go-to source for a lot of the battle type quests. When the 'hoods get shuffled, it's always a good idea to go through the back half and jot down who has 2 Spearchumpies for defense, and/or has a defense that's 2-4+ ages behind. Those are easy fodder for the 'win X battles in a row without losing' quests.
GE is even better for any of the 'defeat X enemy units', since you can play through an encounter until there's only 1 enemy left, retreat, and then re-fight it until you have all the kills you require.
4.
NEVER LEAVE ANY PROVINCES WITH OPEN SECTORS!!
As long as you have no 'unsolved' provinces, you will never get the "take X sectors" quests.
5. Keep regularly pruning your Friends list of inactives. Yes it's a pain the butt, however, doing so means that the only quest that becomes iffy is the god-awful 'Collect 3500 tavern silver' quest.
Upgrade your tray & floor to increase the amount you gain when you collect/visit other taverns.
6. For any of the 'collect 100's of goods' quests, just set a 'neutral' set of trades and ask for a guildmate's help. (ie: 100 basalt for 100 brass & 100 brass for 100 basalt)
It counts for the quest, and no one is actually losing out any goods.
Congrats, DC's are now easy.